Why can’t I find love?

18.03.2024 115

Some of us seem to glide into relationships without any problems while others are desperately seeking for a soulmate. Why is that?

Well, we all have our own problems with a relationship, commitment issues etc. However, some people despite their biggest efforts are still alone. The real problem here is they always think that just nobody likes them and they can’t do anything about it.

That is where you are wrong. There are specific mistakes you probably do and just by avoiding them, you can open up a chance for someone to get close to you. For example, the biggest problem among many people is too high expectations.

You might probably be aiming only for the specific type of people, with certain hair colour or certain height. It is highly unlikely that you will find your soulmate like that. You need to open up a bit to the world and consider your options.

If you rely on unrealistic expectations, your love life will also be like that – unrealistic. Another main issue is that the search for a partner might be your main focus. You have put so much energy into it and it is everything you think about.

For that reason, you might unintentionally force your potential lover into a relationship while they might not be ready. It will put pressure on people and they will just try to escape. Wait until they get comfortable with you and wait until they make the first move.

Another important thing is not to lie about your personal life, at least, not too much. Don’t get carried away to impress your date. Your date will certainly notice if you brag too much or get carried away in our stories. Keep it simple or rather mysterious. Listen to your date more and talk less.